Codependency

Excessive emotional reliance on a partner, child, or family member — losing self in the role of caretaker, fixer, or rescuer.

Why this habit matters

  • Identity: Loss of personal preferences, hobbies, friendships, and sense of self-direction outside of caretaking the other person.
  • Mental_health: Chronic resentment, burnout, depression, and anxiety; long-term codependents often report a profound sense of self-loss.
  • Relationships: Tends to attract or sustain relationships with addiction, abuse, or chronic dysfunction; creates parent-child dynamics in adult partnerships.

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