Emotional Reasoning

Treating your feelings as evidence about reality — "I feel it, therefore it must be true" — about yourself, others, and the world.

Why this habit matters

  • Social: Treating "I feel rejected" as proof of rejection drives social withdrawal, missed events, and a gradually shrinking social world — frequently without the other party ever knowing they were the assumed source.
  • Mental_health: A core CBT-recognized cognitive distortion that drives depression, anxiety disorders, social phobia, and avoidance by treating subjective feelings as evidence about reality.
  • Decision_making: Major decisions made on the basis of fear, guilt, or low mood — quitting jobs, ending relationships, declining opportunities — accumulate into a measurably narrower life trajectory.

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