Gaslighting

Systematic manipulation that makes another person doubt their perception, memory, or sanity — a recognized form of psychological abuse.

Why this habit matters

  • Cognition: Sustained gaslighting impairs reality-testing, decision-making, and confidence in one's own memories — described by survivors as "a fog."
  • Relationships: Gaslighting destroys the foundation of trust in close relationships and makes future intimate connection harder for years after exit.
  • Mental_health: Long-term targets show high rates of anxiety, depression, complex trauma symptoms, and severely damaged self-trust.

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